Welcome to my blog!

BlondyInsider is a travel and lifestyle blog that inspires readers to explore the world, embrace personal style, and live an adventurous, empowered life.

Why I Didn’t Like Japan, and Would I Go Back?

I’ve always been fascinated by Japan, a land rich in culture, history, and technological advancements. Social media was flooded with stunning images of cherry blossom season, which inspired me to plan a spring trip to Japan. I decided to pair this visit with a brief stop in South Korea, thanks to a travel itinerary I found from a Serbian travel agency. I thought it would be a great opportunity to explore another Asian country while I was already in that part of the world.

First Impressions: Overwhelmed by Tokyo

My journey began with excitement but quickly turned into a whirlwind of cultural shocks and unexpected challenges. Upon arrival in Tokyo, I was immediately overwhelmed. The airport and train stations were filled with unfamiliar sounds and massive crowds. Everyone seemed to be moving in unison, walking on the left side in a highly organized manner. This was so different from anything I was used to back home. The language barrier was the first major hurdle—there was almost no English spoken, and the signage was all in Japanese. This initial experience was disorienting and left me feeling out of place.

Kyoto: A City of Contrast

From Tokyo, I took a bullet train to Kyoto. Despite my expectations of a luxurious ride, the reality was quite different. The train was efficient but not as fancy as I had imagined. Kyoto Station was enormous, and navigating it was another challenge. My first meal in Kyoto was stressful; trying to decipher a menu entirely in Japanese and communicate with waitstaff who didn’t speak English was daunting. Thankfully, technology came to the rescue—using my phone to translate the menu made things a bit easier. The portion sizes in restaurants were also much smaller than I was used to, adding to the sense of unfamiliarity.

Fushimi Inari Taisha: Awe and Exhaustion

My first day of sightseeing in Kyoto was a mixture of awe and exhaustion. The enormous number of tourists at Fushimi Inari Taisha, a shrine famous for its thousand Torii gates, was overwhelming. I was introduced to Shinto philosophy, learning about Kami and the significance of Torii gates. However, the crowds made it difficult to fully appreciate the beauty and serenity of the place. The sheer volume of people everywhere was a stark contrast to what I was accustomed to, making the experience both fascinating and exhausting.

Gion and the Traditional Tea Ceremony

In Gion, a district known for its Geisha history, I saw more tourists dressed as Geishas than actual Geishas. Despite this, I managed to book a traditional Japanese tea ceremony, which was a highlight of my trip. The intricate process of preparing and serving tea was mesmerizing, and it gave me a deep appreciation for Japanese culture. The experience was both educational and calming, offering a brief respite from the cultural chaos I felt. It was a reminder of how different Japanese culture is and how much there is to absorb and understand.

Tokyo: A City of Relentless Pace

Tokyo was another beast entirely. The city’s relentless pace, constant sounds, and the sheer number of people were exhausting. Yet, it was also incredibly fascinating. Akihabara, known for its electronics and anime culture, was a sensory overload with its bright lights and bustling streets. Visiting the Imperial Palace gardens provided a much-needed escape from the urban frenzy. These gardens were stunningly beautiful and meticulously maintained, offering a meditative experience that contrasted sharply with the rest of the city.

Navigating the Tokyo Subway

Navigating Tokyo was an adventure in itself. The subway system was complex, and finding my way to various attractions required patience and determination. Everything was in Japanese, and figuring out which line to take and where to transfer was challenging. I visited Meiji Jingu, a serene Shinto shrine in Harajuku, and enjoyed the juxtaposition of this peaceful spot against the vibrant, fashion-forward streets of Harajuku. Animal cafes were another quirky aspect of Tokyo, and I spent some time in a pig cafe, which was both relaxing and amusing.

The Onsen Experience

One of the most memorable parts of my trip was visiting an onsen, a traditional Japanese hot spring. Initially, the idea of bathing naked in a public setting was intimidating, but it turned out to be a liberating and rejuvenating experience. The onsen provided a peaceful escape from the bustling city and allowed me to immerse myself in a unique aspect of Japanese culture.

Reflections on Japan

Despite the initial cultural shock and challenges, Japan left a profound impression on me. The meticulous gardens, the dedication of the people maintaining them, and the overall attention to detail in every aspect of life were awe-inspiring. The culture was vastly different from anything I was used to, and it took time to absorb and appreciate these differences. While my first visit was overwhelming and at times stressful, it also offered moments of tranquility and profound cultural insight.

Would I Go Back?

Reflecting on my trip, I realized that Japan is a place of incredible contrasts. The initial cultural shock was intense, but once I processed the experience, I understood the beauty and depth of Japanese culture. Would I go back? Absolutely. Now that I have a better understanding of what to expect, I am eager to return and explore more, with a greater appreciation for the unique experiences Japan offers.


1 Comment

  1. Aurora
    June 4, 2024 / 11:18 pm

    Interesting article

Leave a Reply

Your email address will not be published. Required fields are marked *